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Skriven 2011-01-23 21:53:40 av hap newsom (1:124/311)
     Kommentar till en text av Nancy Backus
Ärende: Re: trips
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Hey Nancy!
-> 
->  ->  HN> It looks like Mom may have known
->  ->  HN> the severity of her condition but 
->  ->  HN> would not let the Dr's tell anyone
->  ->  HN> for fear of "ruining" our holidays.
->  -> How like a mom... ;)
->  -> 
->  HN> And how VERY like this Mom. Any and all of
->  HN> us would have much preferred to have spent
->  HN> some extra time with her during the
->  HN> holidays, even if she was in the hospital.
-> 
-> And would have had a jolly enough time, bringing
-> the holidays to her.  :)  But I guess that's 
-> how she wanted things.
->
Yep, too late to change it now!
 
->  ->  HN> Amanda will fly out from California
->  ->  HN> tomorrow am. Funeral will be on 
->  ->  HN> Thursday, I have to stay here, but
->  ->  HN> will certainly be there in spirit.
->  -> We'll be with you (and them) in spirit, too.
->  ->
->  HN> It was a long and difficult day to 
->  HN> be home and alone.
-> 
-> I can well imagine.  When are Anne and Amanda
-> expected back?
->
They are staying another week, I'll
pick em up on Saturday the 29th.
Amanda will stay here for a few days
and then back down to Cali.
 
->  HN> Thank you so much...now comes the 
->  HN> really tough part...dealing with the 
->  HN> will.
-> 
-> Is that expected to be a argument-producer?
-> Or are you just thinking in terms of the 
-> finality of things that it represents...?
-> 
Not expecting too much of that
although there could be some.
But Anne's older sister is the 
executrix of the will, and she
lives in Florida, so it may take 
some time for things to get 
done...I'm encouraging them 
to get a lawyer to do all the 
running forms around and such
and all She would have to do
is sign things.s..but we'll see.
Brother in law (the bum) and
two of his 4 kids have been
living in the house rent free 
for the past bunch of years.
and not really doing too much 
to be any help around the 
house ( although Mom 
claimed they were a "great"
help). And there is some 
discussion on at least
getting the grandsons out
on their own...Brother 
may stay but not sure.
The house will more than
likely get sold and the 
proceeds split between 
the kids...but Brother
can't afford to buy 
out the other three and also
can't afford to live in the 
neighborhood where he
is now...so.....there 
could be some fireworks
down the road...
chat with you soon!
hap 
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