Text 35561, 70 rader
Skriven 2006-08-01 14:51:00 av Matt Bedynek (1:106/1)
  Kommentar till text 35528 av Carol Shenkenberger (6:757/1)
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Hello Carol.

01 Aug 06 21:47, you wrote to me:

 CS> I'm title scanning due to too high of a traffic load.

It begs to question why you would involve yourself or take a position in
something which you openly admit to not having all the details?

 CS> Perhaps interpretation.  He contacted you.  He did so with a net
 CS> segment that doesnt exist and with not enough contact info for the
 CS> nodes to know they exist, but he's at least made some level of
 CS> approach.

I have recieved no netmail, e-mail, or instant messages.  I am not hard to
reach.  I even give my phone number to people who can be trusted with it.  I
also made it clear that I am more than willing to help; even those who are
disagreeable.  But that help must be accepted.

 CS> Since i recall messages from you that were not exactly 'friendly',
 CS> this suprises you?

How friendly, trusting, or receptive should I be with comments that I have been
the recipient to over the years?  Comments like "fuck matt" or "matt's mother
is a whore"?  You have seem to gone on the offensive simply because I put you
on the spot and questioned your position.  How much courtesy would we see if I
engaged you with such derogatory comments followed by demands?  On the
countrary, I believe *all* of us have been more than courteous and
accomodating.  What more do *we* have to give?

 CS> He did contact you though.

Wrong.

 CS> Sorry, last I recall, you were refusing to give him a RIN until he did
 CS> some hoop jumping.

Since you recall "hoop jumping" please tell me what those were?  In any event,
I reversed myself after reviewing policy shortly after and make it clear then I
would permit the RI entry (this several months back in case you missed or
forgot).  He decided he wanted to keep his "ZIN".

 CS> Your choice as RC but if he's really got some nodes, you are losing
 CS> out there. I dont know that he does, but I suggested he have them
 CS> email you so you could check it out.

Do you actually believe he has applicants?  If he does, why would he withhold
their contact information or not provide them mine?  Are you the only one that
does not find this suspicious? 
 CS> Matt, I didnt deserve that diatribe.  The fact is many want him driven
 CS> out of fidonet.  You are one of those people apparently?  I am not.

 CS> The best solution here is for you to work with him to get relisted
 CS> someplace because to do other when he's obviously capable, makes you
 CS> look more than a little stubborn. A guy who can send you a nodestub,
 CS> obviously should be found a home.  We are too small to play games
 CS> about things like that.

To be honest, Carol, I think you did.  Nothing in my message was offensive or
intended to be that way. But you have taken a position I disagree with and I am
calling you out on it.  So, expect tough questions.  In my opinion, your
continued support simply because you want to exchange a few words is a bit
selfish.

Matt

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